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When Someone Breaks Your Heart

Sometimes relationships just complete themselves and sometimes they are ripped from our hearts.

We can be left feeling like something went terribly wrong or worse, that something is terribly wrong with us.

We can feel shame, self-pity, self-doubt, rejection, hurt, humiliation, resentment, self-loathing and it feels like ass!!!!

Yep, that’s what I just said. There is no other way to describe it.

You start asking yourself what you did wrong, you question what you could have done differently .

Nothing my dear, nothing!!!!

When someone just leaves like that, without completing the relationship, it doesn’t say anything about you, it doesn’t mean anything about you. It’s all about them. But you are the one sitting here with a broken heart, I get it, it hurts and it sucks.

At the moment, you have just lost the plot. You thought you knew how the story was going to go and then someone changed the plot.

You let them write in your book, that’s it.

They took control of your story line.

It is going to make sense to you one day, as you start writing your story again.

Don’t close the book.  Simply turn the page and start writing a new chapter. The one about healing and self-love.

Now, go be a goal setting, goal getting, goal digger who loves!

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