Do you get the Sunday night blues, every night of the week?
Do you vent about your boss or the company or co-workers?
Do you dread the workday?
Do you feel disengaged?
We all do from time to time, that’s why vacations or so useful. But, if you find yourself in this state most of the time, it’s time to do something about it.
Now most of the time people think they need to get a new job or get a new boss but I don’t think that is necessary at all! I think you need to get a new mindset!
This is the one area that you can experience the most profound transformation in the shortest period of time and experience the biggest benefit…overnight.
I normally say that thought work is simple but it’s not easy. In this case, not only is this thought work simple…it’s a piece of cake.
Why is it important to step into this work?
- We spend a lot of time at work, too much time to not enjoy it.
- When we vent to others, there is no upside, in fact, we bring them into our negative energy.
- To wake up in dread every day is a total waste of your life and for sure you are dragging that into work with you.
- Lack of engagement spreads and breeds like bacteria, you don’t want to be the carrier.
- If you want to make more money, get a promotion or even get a better job…you will need a new mindset.
Now some of you might think that if you had a different boss or different co-workers that you would not need a new mindset. That is actually not true. In fact, if you do not work on your mindset now, you will just carry this baggage with you and eventually you will find yourself in a job you don’t like working with people you don’t like.
So many of us have the idea that it’s our boss’s job, our company’s job, or our co-workers responsibility to make us feel motivated, inspired, fulfilled, relevant, respected, appreciated, utilized, liked, satisfied valued etc…
That my friends is an inside job.
It has never been and it never will be anyone’s job, or responsibility to make you feel anything about your job..that can only come from you.
This is the best news ever, because when you are dependent on someone else to make you feel better, you will always be let down and disappointed. When you assume responsibility for your own thoughts and feelings, you are empowered and not at the effect of someone else.
When you change the way that you look at things, the things you look at change…
When you think a thought like, “My boss is an idiot and a micro-manager,” how does that make YOU show up in the workplace? How does that thought contribute to YOUR results? Probably not getting the best results right? I know that you think you can hide your feelings well and that it does not affect your work…your are so wrong. It shows up, it’s not a secret.
And remember, your brain wants to prove your thoughts true (confirmation bias). Your brain will serve you all the evidence that you need in order to keep thinking that your boss is an idiot and a micro-manager, even when it’s not true!!!!
It works the other way too…
What if you tried on the thought, “My boss is knowledgeable and interested in my work.” When you think that, how does that feel? How do you think that you would show up differently?
As you think that thought, your brain will also serve you evidence that those thoughts are true too, even if they are not! I ask you, which thought serves you better? It is that easy!
I am so convinced that I can help you make an overnight transformation in this area that I am willing to help you out for free! That’s right. I will work with you for 30 minutes at no charge and no obligation and we will get you into the right mindset so that you can learn to love your job, your boss and your co-workers. All you have to do is let me know and I will schedule your free session.
When you are able to step into the person who takes ownership of your own emotions, you are able to create any result that you desire.