What do you want? I mean, really, really, really want? How do you want to show up in your life, with friend’s, at work, with the kids, with the spouse in the community, in the universe?
We are afraid to ask sometimes, we are afraid to imagine or dream about a life that is beyond our thoughts about our life. We fear rejection, embarrassment and humiliation. We think the dream life is for others.
We ruminate on what others might think if we start chasing a dream or start working for that impossible goal.
So we don’t…
We fail ahead of time talking ourselves out of even trying to up-level our lives because we can’t imagine it would even be possible to have what we really want.
We talk ourselves out of it with our thoughts and emotions and then the behaviors and actions support the thoughts, and the result is… more of the same.
Rinse and repeat!
Your thoughts are the lens into your life. I want you to become very aware of what you are thinking. What do you say to yourself? What is your tone of voice when you talk to yourself?
Your results will prove your thoughts true 100%…every time!!! That is the best news!!!!
“I can’t, I don’t know how, I am not sure?” None of these thoughts serve you, EVER!
No one ever figured anything out saying, “I can’t.” Here it is in a model;
- Circumstance: I want ______________ (add whatever you want here)
- Thought: “I don’t know where to start” or “I can’t”
- Feeling: Whatever feeling that thought makes you feel insert here
- Action/Inaction: Do nothing
- Result: Don’t achieve or acquire of accomplish the thing
I can help you stop that thought model and create the thoughts that serve you!
Have you heard about Transformation Tuesday?
Tune in to Facebook every Tuesday for the next year and we are going to talk about all thing goals. Even if you think you have a handle on goal setting, tune in. I promise to teach you in a way you have never experienced.
Here is a link to last Tuesday where we kicked it off. Transformation Tuesday
Now, go be a goal setting, goal getting, goal digger.