OK, we are one quarter of the way through the year and I am wondering how your goals are going?
Are they going or are they gone or did they even get launched?
Did you set goals? If not, why not?
Maybe you don’t feel worthy…what??? You were born worthy!
Maybe you don’t think you have time…that’s a good one. We make time for what is important to us or we fill up our lives with nonsense to give us an excuse.
Maybe you don’t know how…another good one. You don’t have to know how, you only have to know why.
Maybe you have been telling yourself, “one day when….” The time is right now, this second.
Maybe you don’t think you should be so self-indulgent…You are already indulging yourself by using everyone else and everything else as an excuse. Nice try though.
Maybe you struggle with the “what” because when you start thinking about the “how” you freak out…if your goals don’t make you freak out, you aren’t dreaming big enough. Freak Out! Then do it anyway.
Maybe you can’t even imagine a “what” because that freaks you out…See above.
What story is standing between you and yours goals?
Are you searching for the secret sauce? Sweetie, you are the secret sauce! No one can do what you do the way that you do it. The world needs your work out in the universe.
Are you hoping your dream will just show up one day and say “I’m here?”
I know what it’s like to just sit around hoping that one day something will be different and someday I will be able, (aka motivated) to focus on what I want for me.
I know what it’s like to think that goals and dreams are for other people, the kids, the spouse, the friends, but not for me.
I know what it’s like to tell yourself a story so that you don’t have to take responsibility for what you get your life. Did I just say that? Yep!
I know, I did it too!
The only thing that was keeping me from pursuing my goals and dreams was me, and the stories that I told myself.
My self-limiting beliefs about me and my worth kept me sitting on the couch, drinking beer, eating Cheetos and watching TV, all while hoping tomorrow would be different.
The only one holding you back is you! What are you waiting for?
If you need help, just ping me.
Now go be a goal setting, goal working, goal getting goal digger!